Perception Check Analysis

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Perception Check Christopher Scott Tirrell COM101H July 11, 2009 Perception Check Before I met my wife now, I worked as a gang pusher for an oilfield equipment maintenance operation. In laymen terms, I was the leader of a three man crew that maintained oilfield equipment when it broke down. Every morning after leaving our shop we would stop for fuel, coffee, and lunch makings at the local convenient store on our way to a job. The manager was always in early and seemed to be having what my crew and I called “Early morning barbeques.” We always thought this because she was always loud and kept moving her hands while she was speaking. This made her appear to be angry or upset. I always paid attention to how intense…show more content…
Each morning was the same. My first interpretation of her behavior was that her employees were always slacking off and not performing their assigned duties. Therefore, she had to be loud and strict with them. My second interpretation of her behavior was that she was a hard case or a perfectionist and no matter how hard the employees tried, she was not going to be pleased. Several days past and I did not see her come in. I thought that she had either quit or transferred out of the store like so many other managers had done. After a week she showed back up. Her behavior was different when she returned. I noticed her in the back, slumped down in a chair looking over some paperwork, and she was crying. This behavior was shocking to me and even though I did not know her, I felt that crying did not fit with her usual attitude. I had gotten used to her yelling and be strong willed with her employees. I did not know what make of her crying. Adler and Proctor II imply that individuals cling to first impressions. I do not know why I sat down and started talking to her. I just could not stand to see her cry, so I sat down and asked what was wrong and if I could do anything to help. She began explaining that she had been on vacation for a week and now the paperwork was a mess, and money was missing from the store. Although she was not yelling, her voice was above the normal for my comfort and her hands were constantly…show more content…
Both have great personalities and I love them both dearly. Even though sign language is not verbal, I have learned that a person can describe what they are feeling just as easy through signing. I have learned that perceptions of another are not always correct when all the details are unknown. Perception checking is a useful tool in communication, but can lead to false interpretations if a person does not know all the

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