Psy/217 Personality Psychology

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Jaime Villanueva PSY 217 Personality Psychology Tuesday Spring 2013 Personality Paper Two: Personality and Emotion Of the theories studied in class so far, I believe that Carl Rogers person centered model theory is the most comprehensive, scientifically testable, parsimonious way of understanding the emotional aspect of personality. My argument is based on the following ideas: people are essentially decent and that human nature is basically compassionate and optimistic. Carl Rogers felt that the natural human states to be fully functioning, but under some circumstances people become delayed in their drive toward self-actualization. People can lose their sense of direction at any time. At the center of Rogers method is the concept of…show more content…
Parents often make their positive regard depending on circumstance, such as the conditions expressed in these statements “Show me you’re a great athlete like your dad and get me a touchdown,” and I would really enjoy if you scored twenty points for me in your basketball game tonight.” I used these quotes because I have seen many parents pushing children into sports, and the children may remain in the sports, not because they like sports, but to earn the love and positive regard of their parents. The obligations set forth by parents or significant others for earning their positive regard are called conditions of worth. In addition I think that children may become worried with living up to these conditions of worth, than finding what makes them content. Drawing on what I have observed from people, I believe that these children behave in a specific way to earn the love, respect and positive regard of parents and other significant people in their lives. Positive regard, when it must be earned by meeting certain conditions, is called conditional positive regard. Drawing from what I have learned in my class’s children who experience many conditions of worth may lose touch…show more content…
In addition Rogers used client-centered therapy; in client centered therapy the patient is never given an clarification of his or her problem. The patient is not given any directions about what course of action to take to solve the problem. The therapist makes no attempts to change the patient directly. Instead, the therapist tries to create the right conditions in which the client can change him or herself. There are three core conditions for client-centered therapy. These conditions must be present in the therapy environment in order for progress to occur. The first core condition is atmosphere of authentic reception on the part of the therapist. The therapist must be genuinely able to accept the client. Second the therapist must convey unconditional positive regard for the client, this means that the therapist accepts everything the client say without passing judgment on the client. Clients trust that the therapist will not reject them if they say the wrong thing or if something critical comes out in the course of therapy. The atmosphere is safe for clients to begin exploring their distress. The third condition for the therapeutic progress is empathic understating. The client must feel that the therapist understands him or her. Drawing on what I have learned from observing people I believe that empathy
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