Practical Book Review: Why Don T We Listen Better

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Practical Book Review Practical Book Review: Why Don’t We Listen Better? LaTasha Daniel Liberty University Practical Book Review: Why Don’t We Listen Better? Summary “Why Don’t We Listen Better”, a resource book written by James C. Peterson informing readers about effective listening and improving communication skills by sharing his personal and seminary training experiences. “The word communication derives from the root “to commune,” It has at least two levels-sharing information and connecting with others” (Peterson, 2007, p 18). Petersen start out in part one of his book with discussing how he learned the value of communication balancing through observation of…show more content…
The talker-listener card (TLC) was created to be used as foldable third person who purpose is to keep us honest and remain on target without losing focus. The goals of talker-listener card is to remind each person to take turns listening and talking to one another. Taking turns talking and listening prevent arguments from taking place, but at the same time allows the person to focus the view points of the speaker. Petersen went on in further detail on to explain in a deeper aspect of the flat brain theory in a deeper perspective as well as more in depth explanation of the talker-listener card and it usefulness in communication. Touching on more listening techniques in later chapters he offer three technique to help improve are listening techniques. This includes having a save environment to share feelings, to have an understanding and the ability to actively listen to the talker and to clarify the problem. In conclusion the book serves as a wonderful resource tool to use to improve our listening and communication skills. Helping us to understand that showing emotion such as empathy or warmth are crucial in the effective role of communication. Allowing us to build stronger families, friendships and stronger communities (Petersen, 2007). Upon completion of the book I had the ability to answer the question of why, equipped with the…show more content…
Throughout the book the author revealed plenty of useful information put into action in approving are listening skills to be better listeners. My actions consist of be more conscious in my listening skills and continue to control the negative emotions that sometimes arise that prevent us from listening to others. It is important to keep intact my emotion until I have a full understanding and clarity of the message being relied to me. I will remember to steer away from being defensive, because at the same time I can be unknowingly attacking others around me that loves me. With every opportunity of listening I will be mindful of creating a safe environment where clarity, understanding, and listening can take place effectively. More, important I should keep in mind how God listen to us. He listen to other with a love, compassion and caring heart. I want to do more listening and slow to speak. James 1:19 (KJV) says, “Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath.” Taking the correct actions when listening will allow me to mend broken relationship due to lack of communication or listening skills. A good course of action to improving communication and listening skills will help in my future career in the human service
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